The Best Traits of Women according to Hazrat Ali(A.S)

The best traits of women are those which are the worst traits of men,Namely
*Vanity
*Cowardice
*Miserliness.
Thus since the women is vain she would not allow any access to herself;since she is miser she would preserve her own property and property of her husband,and since she is weak-hearted she would be frightened with everything that befalls her..
Hazrat Ali(A.S)

Vanity has always been considered a sin but in certain cases it can become a Farz only this saying of Hazrat Ali(A.S) has proved it to me..vanity or conceit is thinking highly of yourself without looking down on anybody(shaykh kamaluddin)..the first part of the saying reflects on the basic and almost forgotten rule of Islamic State that's a women being vain here means that she would not let or allow anyone to approach her only because its not permissible in Islam and not because of the pride of the beauty she's blessed with..she would'nt be considering herself highly of any person of another gender instead she would be just following The Command(May we all get the courage to follow this Command *Aameen*because this's the most crucial part of one's belief and usually considered to be owned by narrow minded people but in my opinion is responsible for most of the evil happenings of this century)
Cowardice,for men is definitely considered a sign of shame when noticed being coward to stand up for himself but on the other hand considered a sign of a believer if he's fear for his Creator,the One who's Mighty and Deserves to be Sought after..Hazrat Ali(A.S) has mentioned a coward women among the best women (probably every women i've known is coward) this's something we women cant deny that we're weak hearted in born and get verry serious in little issues about life..
Miserliness is a sin(probably something that we all are committing unknowingly)and women are among the most misers in controlling management of house hold(hehe..i'm a khatoon too and at times i really find myself fighting to bargain for very small amounts)the point quoted here for women being miser is in terms of her possessiveness for her properties that include her self respect(being known as a Muslim Women)and if being married then preserving her self respect being a Muslim Wife..such a women takes every step with keen observation and determination such that she might not let any thing ruin her relation and her duty she's assigned being wife by Almighty..
(MAY WE ALL GET THE COURAGE OF FOLLOWING THE FOOTSTEPS OF UMMAHA-TUL-MOMINEEN)Aameen=)
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